Obituary:
Lanny "Lee" Busey, a long-time resident of Pleasanton, California passed away unexpectedly December 21, 2024.
To his family he was known as Lanny. Later in life he went by Lee.
Lee is survived by his daughter Noelle, his beloved son-in-law Bill Basacker and three grandchildren: Emmalee and Lacey Basacker and Tyler Elmore. He is also survived by three stepchildren: Debra Elmore, Cindy Elmore and Matt Elmore, much loved daughter-in-law Summer Anderson, his nephew Scott, niece Carie, Uncle Max and Aunt Anne, and first wife and friend Shirley Milani. He is pre-deceased by his parents, Matt and Lois, his sister Kay, and his wives Hilda Elmore and Karen Passeri.
Lanny Leroy was born in Washington D.C. in 1940 where his father Matt worked as an FBI agent. Work transfers took them to Boston and Pittsburg, where his sister Kay was born. When Lee was 13, his father left the FBI to move to Washington state to work for the Boeing Company in Seattle, closer to family.
After graduating from Roosevelt High School in Seattle, Lee attended the University of Washington. He joined the Marine Corps in 1963 and was in the Reserves for five years. Lee was proud to be a Marine. He would correct anyone that said he "was" a Marine by saying "once a Marine, always a Marine".
He married Shirley Sherwood in 1966, and his daughter Noelle was born in 1968. He started his career with Household Finance Corporation (HFC) in Seattle and then moved his family to Livermore, California in 1970. In short order Lee produced "big numbers" and was elevated to District Sales Manager and worked all over Northern California. He was successful always, held in the highest regard by all, positive, and cheerful. He made lifelong friends throughout his career. He retired at fifty-five so he and Karen, who he married in 1978, could travel together around the world. Sadly, their travels were cut short when Karen passed away in 2003.
Lee was very sociable and could talk with anyone and everyone. He was handsome and charming and had friends from every walk of life. He lived on the same court in Pleasanton for thirty years. Over time the neighbors became great friends. They took turns hosting dinners, card games, celebrating birthdays, and supporting each other through difficult times. Anyone who knew him, knew what an interesting man he was. He had an exceptional long-term and photographic memory and regaled friends, family, and strangers with tales about his travels and experiences. His stories and adventures will be part of his legacy.
Lee loved fast cars from a young age and was passionate about Formula 1. He owned several sports cars including a Corvette Stingray, Pantera, AC Cobra, Maserati, and his Ferrari. The faster and louder the cars, the more he loved them. His garage was covered with posters from all of the races he went to over the years. He loved jazz and rock & roll. He would find a song or a video that he loved and would share it with everyone that came to the house.
He was generous; enjoyed paying for dinner, loved to leave large tips and give money to people in need. He cherished animals, he rescued many dogs and took in a stray cat that found its way into his garage. He even let the cat sleep on his Ferrari. He was on the board of the Valley Humane Society and made donations to many animal shelters and children in need.
Lee loved good food and wine and would seek out Michelin Star restaurants. He took great pride in finding a good wine at a reasonable price but had no hesitation in paying for a great bottle of wine. He was a loyal patron of Barone's, Hap's, and Jim's.
He loved watching the History Channel, especially WWII documentaries, Formula 1, golf, and football. He also enjoyed going to places that were featured in movies; he and Hilda went to the restaurant Le Grand Colbert in Paris where Jack Nicholson and Diane Keaton had dinner in the movie "Something's Gotta Give." He also took a picture of Hilda in front of the Hotel Regina where one of the scenes from The Bourne Identity was filmed. Lee was acutely aware of places, things, and movies and had a remarkable memory. He could remember the tiniest details. He couldn't remember that he had already told you the story a few times, but he always remembered the story.
Lee was so happy to find love again with Hilda. They married in 2008 and lived life together as a perfect match. They had the same priorities and enjoyed the same things. They filled their lives with family, friends, and fun. They traveled the world together and experienced things that many can only dream of. Hilda passed in August 2024, and that loss was more than he could bear.
He was incredibly proud of his beautiful daughter Noelle and three grandchildren. He bragged about Noelle's career and travels and loved that she spoke multiple languages. She was his pride and joy. He went to every one of Emmalee's theater performances, attended as many of Lacey's volleyball games as he could, and enjoyed going to Tyler's soccer games. He never missed one of the girl's ballet performances in 13 years! He carried pictures of all three grandchildren in his wallet and would proudly show them to everyone he met.
He enjoyed life to the fullest and lived to make great memories. He will be missed.
Family and friends are invited to celebrate his life on Friday, March 21, 2025 at the Round Hill Country Club at 3169 Round Hill Rd, Alamo, CA from 1pm - 4pm. Please confirm your attendance at noellebusey@yahoo.com.
In lieu of flowers please donate to the Valley Humane Society of Pleasanton at www.valleyhumane.org
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